Ok now do postfix
The official release is not standard compliance. It does not support anything modern spam filter need. It don't get new updates or features. It have funny license.
You can use a fork... but I need to ask: which fork?
I’ve been looking at Stalwart to replace my old exim setup, wondering if it’s a reasonable choice.
I use Postfix with MySQL, what is the issue with that?
(I don't think anyone should run qmail.)
However it has some compatibility problems with modern practices, the most significant being that it does not know TLS.
Having to use TLS is the main reason for running a qmail fork instead of the original.