Everything Meta has built is antithetical to privacy. I’m surprised this feature existed at all.
That grew into the Messenger mobile app. They eventually added private messaging, but it was never popular/defaulted because users expected the chat moles on facebook.com to be able to show the same messages as the mobile app. If facebook.com can't read your messages, it can't show them there.
One can’t say they didn’t know or consent to their group chat info being used for training data if there’s no reason to assume your chat data is private