There are no preferences available for symmetrical encryption. GnuPG for example does AES for symmetrical encryption by default. Is it violating RFC-4880? I think things get philosophical here.
I doubt that there is an implementation left that does 3DES by default.
It would be nice to update the standard to make AES required to be available for decryption. I really wish that the most recent standard update attempt had restricted their scope to such uncontroversial changes before going to war over the controversial changes.