>I don’t believe anybody actually thinks this way.
Oh, there are far too many people that do. I mostly call them the "Hell for you, heaven for me" bunch, the doublethink/cognitive dissonance in so many is very very strong.
https://joycearthur.com/abortion/the-only-moral-abortion-is-...
“The Only Moral Abortion is My Abortion” is a common example of this behavior.