No, thanks, though. Mark Zuckerberg doesn't care if everyone on the planet thinks he's a dick. But as long as folks like you will go to the ends of the earth to make excuses for anyone who's complicit in the use of these tools, you're also to blame for the consequences of their use.
> Maybe things aren't as vanta-black and ultra-white as you're insisting.
Of course they're black and white, in exactly the same way, to use your example, that smoking cigarettes is bad.
There is no need whatsoever to use any of these products. It is completely possible to live your life without them. You just don't want to, because you'd rather things be a bit easier and you're willing to ignore the negative externalities.
Do you, dude. Just own it.