Unfortunately, this POV doesn't seem to be widely held by many woth influence.
And if what you say is true, why is Netanyahu still in power?
That said I don't think your point undermines my suggestion that the U.S. should get out of the business of funding Israel and joining it in any wars over there.
They also did try as recently as 2009, not that you'd have heard about it[2].
Also, the aid money the USA sends to Israel doesn't disappear into nothing any more than NASA's funding does. American aid to Israel (and to most places in the world) hinges on the condition that they only use that money to buy from American companies.
[2]: https://www.tabletmag.com/sections/israel-middle-east/articl...