I ended up using https://eu.switch-bot.com/products/switchbot-bot -- just have a finger robot push the button
edit: although mine was an ancient system from the early 90s. It was just replaced with a modern system a couple months ago. At my previous apartment I had wanted to set up a system that would allow either my then partner or I to activate the callbox and have it set for a VOIP number since we could only put one number on the box.