All that time it's people arguing with people and wasting time on pure feels. People will get offended and angry and defensive, nothing good ever comes from it.
But when you pick a style and enforce it with a tool like gofmt or black both locally and in the CI, the arguments go away. That's the style all code merged to the codebase must look like and you will deal with it like a professional.
Go proverb: "Gofmt's style is no one's favorite, yet gofmt is everyone's favorite."