That's your worldview. Crocker's rules is that you don't have to take receiver feelings into account you just communicate efficently.
From https://www.lesswrong.com/w/crockers-rules:
> Note that Crocker's Rules does not mean one is authorized to insult people; it means that other people don't have to worry about whether they are insulting you. Crocker's Rules are a discipline, not a privilege. Furthermore, taking advantage of Crocker's Rules does not imply reciprocity. How could it? Crocker's Rules are something you do for yourself, to maximize information received - not something you grit your teeth over and do as a favor.