No, it's very much yours and the way you phrased it. Perhaps you didn't mean it this way, but you sound like some kind of "pickup artist" type giving advice on "negging" women.
Doesn't come off like a creep.
> signals very clearly you don't really give much of a shit about talking to her, and your social status is higher than hers
Comes off like a creep.
One that cannot tell the difference probably comes off like a creep.