There is no need to be “humane” to AI because it possess no humanity. It has no personhood at all. It can’t feel. You can’t be inhumane to something that is literally incapable of feeling.
A blade of grass has more humanity and is more deserving of respect than anything being referred to as AI does.
Aliens might not be received well but it’s going to depend a lot on how they show up.
AI is a “revolution” where the promise is that nobody will have to do meaningless work anymore ( I guess).
The only problem is right now basically everyone has to do work meaningful or “meaningless” because the dominant thinking requires it for human survival. Weird how most people aren’t happy for the thing that is pitched to take away the meager scraps they get under the current regime.