I had the same issue! Perhaps being another dapangzi is the problem here lol
I was first called this by a Chinese classmate from Beijing with a biting sense of humor, when I was at university in Tokyo.
We got on really well, to be clear. :)
Hanging out with him was actually how I got started with Mandarin, probably why I chose this username.
Quite alright! We have to make mistakes to learn!