Indeed, it makes you wonder how prevalent this psychological malaise is in the world of teaching and academia.

I don't want any future children of mine, to have self loathing/pessimism or "woe is me" feelings taught by teachers or lecturers.

Self reflection yes, abstract and critical thinking yes, expressing feelings yes.

No - "sorry the world is burning, I think you should be sad about this and maybe reconsider being an Engineer".