The myriad of settings, accessed differently on every site or service, that everyone needs to be aware of, and actively fight dysfunctional defaults and frequent "helpful" resets after updates, are not the solution parents or anyone else are looking for.
Why are the defaults set to favor the company, in a way that makes them real customer/user-targeted security holes that people have to play endless wack-a-mole to secure themselves?
That is industry taking plausible deniability and the monetizing potential of parasitical behavior at scale "seriously" indeed.
Junk food and processed sugar creates dietary based ADHD kids.
One's information diet also changes how the brain develops, that's not a pseudo threat.
I sense some trepidation around not having unfettered access to swim in the whole ocean as a child with more and more sharks and angel fish floating around.
The environment to monitor is increasingly digital, not just in person. See my note above about parents who think their kids are safe at home, when they're letting the entire unfiltered world into their kids devices, eyes, minds without context.