Your content is stolen for training the moment you put it up
The point of putting up a public web site is so the public can view it (including OpenAI/google/etc).
If I don’t want people viewing it, then I don’t make it public.
Saying that things are stolen when they aren’t clouds the issue.
The whole purpose of this data is to be consumed by 3rd-parties.
But what GP probably meant is that OAI definitely uses this log to get a list of new websites in order to scrap then later. This is a pretty standard way to use CT logs - you get a list of domains to scrap instead of relying solely on hyperlinks.