Of course, what you're doing depends on the matrix being Hermitian reducing the upper Hessenberg matrix in the Arnoldi iteration to tridiagonal form. Trying to do a similar streaming computation on a general matrix is going to run into problems.
That said... one area of numerical linear algebra research which is very active is randomized numerical linear algebra. There is a paper by Nakatsukasa and Tropp ("Fast and accurate randomized algorithms for linear systems and eigenvalue problems") which presents some randomized algorithms, including a "randomized GMRES" which IIRC is compatible with streaming. You might find it interesting trying to adapt the machinery this algorithm is built on to the problem you're working on.
As for Rust, having done a lot of this research myself... there is no problem relying on BLAS or LAPACK, and I'm not sure this could be called a "wall". There are also many alternative libraries actively being worked on. BLIS, FLAME, and MAGMA are examples that come to mind... but there are so many more. Obviously Eigen is also available in C++. So, I'm not sure this alone justifies using Rust... Of course, use it if you like it. :)