I totally get the point it makes. I remember many years ago we announced SocketStream at a HackerNews meet-up and it went straight to #1. The traffic was incredible but none of us were DevOps pros so I ended up restarting the Node.js process manually via SSH from a pub in London every time the Node.js process crashed.
If only I'd known about upstart on Ubuntu then I'd have saved some trouble for that night at least.
I think the other thing is worrying about SPOF and knowing how to respond if services go down for any reason (e.g. server runs out of disk space - perhaps log rotation hasn't been setup, or has a hardware failure of some kind, or the data center has an outage - I remember Linode would have a few in their London datacenter that just happened to occur at the worst possible time).
If you're building a side project I can see the appeal of not going overboard and setting up a Kubernetes cluster from the get-go, but when it is things that are more serious and critical (like digital infrastructure for supporting car services like remotely turning on climate controls in a car), then you design the system like your life depends on it.