reactive: this matters, but all the alternatives have it
collaborative: this matters very little in the Figma / Google Docs sense of collaborative in practice. It's very rare you want two people working on the same notebook at the same time. What you really want is git style version control.
AI‑ready: you want something as close to plain python (which is already as AI-ready as it gets) as possible.
if you're measuring across these dimensions, I'd go with marimo.
marimo is saved as plain .py files, easy to version control and has a reactive model.