Using a single DBMS for many purposes because it is so flexible and “already there” from an operations perspective is something I’ve seen over and over again. It usually goes wrong eventually with one workload/use screwing up others but maybe that’s fine and a normal part of scaling?

I think a bigger issue is the DBMS themselves getting feature after feature and becoming bloated and unfocused. Add the thing to Postgres because it is convenient! At least Postgres has a decent plugin approach. But I think more use cases might be served by standalone products than by add-ons.