No, vpn takes over your network and you have to fight weird issues on different platforms. This seems like a square peg for a round hole.
Not sure if it's the best solution, but there's no reason to take over your entire network.
Even with my old OpenVPN setup I had a config where only my local 10.2.0.0/16 got routed over the VPN, everything else went straight to the outside world. Set up IPv6 ULA and you don't need to worry about IP addressing conflicts.