What's the reason for not considering Proxmox?
Without that your options for HA shared storage is Ceph (which proxmox makes decently easy to run), or NFS.
1. Proxmox cannot even join a network using DHCP requiring manual IP configuration.
2. Disk encryption is a hell instead of checkbox in installer
3. Wi-Fi - no luck (rarely used for real servers, but frequently for r&d racks)
Of course, it is a Debian core underneath and a lot of things are possible given enough time and persistence, but other solutions have them out of the box.
FWIW, I use Proxmox at home. It’s a bit obtuse at times, but it runs like a champ on my N100-based NUCs.