FSF considers Apache 2 incompatible with the GPL2 because of its "additional conditions".
I happen to agree with you that, at the very least, we haven't fully grappled with the fact that FOSS, like the Linux, is published to the Internet, and freely available to read, by anyone. Obviously, there should be a distinction between reading and copying, just like there is a distinction between reading and copying a literary work.
The issue -- as I see it -- is that many GPL fanatics just don't see it the same way. I believe Linus has even opined that any filesystem which was developed after Linux, whose developers are aware of Linux, could be considered a "derived work". This is of course ridiculous, but the GPL, if read without due care and funneled through social media slop, can be ridiculous.