I have a pet theory. 1. This skill requires a strong theory of mind[1]. 2. Theory of mind is more difficult in those with autism 3. The same autism that makes people really good at coding, and gives them the time to post on online forms like hn, makes it hard to understand how to work with LLMs and how others work with llms.
To provide good context to the llm you need to have a good understanding of (1) what it will and will not know, (2) what you know and take for granted(ie a theory of your own mind) (3) what your expectations are. None of this you need to do when you are coding on your own, but are critical on getting a good response from the LLM.
See also the black and white thinking that is common in the responses on articles like this.[2]
[1]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theory_of_mind [2]https://www.simplypsychology.org/black-and-white-thinking-in...