But it is, and according to what I see in discussion, I’m not lonely at that feeling. And I’m really glad that I started this conversation
You said, "I’m not allowed to post links yet, because of new account". There's a reason for that, and you're trying to bypass that restriction by misusing Ask HN instead.
If, on the on the other hand you regularly post links to other people's blogs and participate in discussion you won't have any trouble slipping in a link to your own blog. The key is you're expected to be part of the community.