I use products I believe in, or find use from. And I vote with my wallet.
But let's be clear, at a point we would have 10 different identical services all because they each have a specific moral or ethical alignment.
Just like you can benefit from an invention but hate the inventor's personal ideology, so too can you benefit from a writers or coders work and still not agree with their belief or perspectives. That is your right.
But remember, while its OK to dislike someone for X.....its also not an excuse to throw away all that person has to offer.
Plenty of people, artists/writers/philosophers etc have had questionable or distasteful opinions or stances. We can recognise this individually, yet still agree they have made great contributions to society in one form or another.