> 6. Disabling swap doesn't prevent pathological behaviour at near-OOM, although it's true that having swap may prolong it. Whether the global OOM killer is invoked with or without swap, or was invoked sooner or later, the result is the same: you are left with a system in an unpredictable state. Having no swap doesn't avoid this.

This is the most important reason I try to avoid having a large swap. The duration of pathological behavior at near-OOM is proportional to the amount of swap you have. The sooner your program is killed, the sooner your monitoring system can detect it ("Connection refused" is much more clear cut than random latency spikes) and reboot/reprovision the faulty server. We no longer live in a world where we need to keep a particular server online at all cost. When you have an army of servers, a dead server is preferable to a misbehaving server.

OP tries to argue that a long period of thrashing will give you an opportunity for more visibility and controlled intervention. This does not match my experience. It takes ages even to log in to a machine that is thrashing hard, let alone run any serious commands on it. The sooner you just let it crash, the sooner you can restore the system to a working state and inspect the logs in a more comfortable environment.