This was shown by Professor Andrew in the Coursera ML class that's happening right now.
Given n features x1 to xn we introduce x0 feature which is always set to 1. During the Regularization lectures the professor said that we don't need to control (or regularize) the theta0 (the parameter for x0) because it doesn't make a difference. I believe this is the reason W(0,0) is set to 0.
The lectures are a little light on the maths, i.e the professor explains only enough maths to explain the techniques so I'm not aware of more details. I'm planning on watching some Linear Algebra lectures to fill in the gaps. :)
Re: Invertability, according to the professor, if lambda is > 0 then the matrix will be invertable. Again I'm not 100% sure if this is true or not.