And there's a real connection to the issue that sparked all this drama in the kernel and the Debian drama: critical system components (the kernel, the filesystem, and others) absolutely need to be able to get bugfixes in a timely manner. That's not optional.
With Debian, we had a package maintainer who decided that unbundling Rust dependencies was more important than getting out updates, and then we couldn't get a bugfix out for mount option handling. This was a non-issue for every other distro with working processes because the bug was fixed in a few days, but a lot of Debian users weren't able to mount in degraded mode and lost access to their filesystems.
In the kernel drama, Linus threw a fit over a repair code to recover from a serious bug and make sure users didn't lose data, and he's repeatedly picked fights over bugfixes (and even called pushing for getting bugfixes out "whining" in the past).
There are a lot of issues that there can be give and take on, but getting fixes out in a timely manner is just part of the baseline set of expectations for any serious project.