Focusing on water, Google does reports on their total water withdrawal at all their data centers. It was around 10 billion gallons per year in 2024. That's around 0.03% of water usage in the US (that's just for rough context - not all of Google's data centers are in the US). I don't think that's an eye-popping amount.
But when you consider that more than 1 billion gallons came from Council Bluffs, IA, you have to make sure that's being done responsibly, and that the local ecology can support it. Google admits that 28% of their water use comes from sources with "medium to high risk of depletion or scarcity." [0]
[0]: https://www.gstatic.com/gumdrop/sustainability/google-2025-e...
Eh, I somewhat disagree with this. The US energy grid has had almost no extra capacity for a long time. A lot of this was due to efficiency (not a bad thing) and little industrial growth (not a great thing) in the country. Data centers themselves, I don't think are the biggest cause of the issues, but the distribution grid. We've had tons of problems around distribution with new energy sources coming online, but issues distributing the power to where we need to.
We see things like private power plants, not because we can't generate power, but because we absolutely suck at distribution of power.