> we shouldn't focus on how a word is defined in dictionary [sic], but rather ... the ... meaning behind it.
This is a spectacularly, objectively invalid take.
This is a spectacularly, objectively invalid take.
Now, within some contexts it is best to stick to standard precise definitions for some words. Still, the meaning of a word within a community is determined by how it is used and understood within that community, not by what is in a dictionary.