> I breathe a sigh of relief in language like Go and Rust with an “authoritative” built-in solution.
I don't know about Go, but Rust's packaging isn't authoritative in the sense that I meant. There's no packaging BDFL; improvements to Rust packaging happen through a standards process that closely mirrors that of Python's PEPs.
I think the actual difference between Rust and Python is that Rust made the (IMO correct) decision early on to build a single tool for package management, whereas Python has historically had a single installer and left every other part of package management up to the user. That's a product of the fact that Python is more of a patchwork ecosystem and community than Rust is, plus the fact that it's a lot older and a lot bigger (in terms of breadth of user installation base).
Basically, hindsight is 20/20. Rust rightly benefited from Python's hard lesson about not having one tool, but they also rightly benefited from Python's good experience with consensus-driven standardization.