Tailscale do have a very nice product, but privacy-conscious users should be aware that you must disable Tailscale's real-time remote collection of your behavior on your “private” network. See KB1011: https://tailscale.com/kb/1011/log-mesh-traffic
“Each Tailscale agent in your distributed network streams its logs to a central log server (at log.tailscale.io). This includes real-time events for open and close events for every inter-machine connection (TCP or UDP) on your network.”
It's possible to opt out of this spying on Unix/Windows/Mac clients by starting Tailscale with `--no-logs-no-support` or `TS_NO_LOGS_NO_SUPPORT=true` environment variable (see https://tailscale.com/kb/1011/log-mesh-traffic#opting-out-of...), but it is not currently possible to opt out in the Android/iOS clients: https://github.com/tailscale/tailscale/issues/13174
For an example of how invasive this is for the average user, this person discovered Tailscale trying to collect ~18000 data points per week about their network usage based on the number of blocked DNS requests for `log.tailscale.com`: https://github.com/tailscale/tailscale/issues/15326
Also see their privacy policy: https://tailscale.com/privacy-policy#information-we-collect-...
“When you use the Tailscale Solution, we collect limited metadata regarding your device used to access the Tailscale Solution, such as: the device name; relevant operating system type; host name; IP address; cryptographic public key; user agent (where applicable); language settings; date and time of access to the Tailscale Solution; logs describing connections and containing statistics about data sent to and from other devices (“Inter-Node Traffic Logs”); and version of the Tailscale Solution installed.” (emphasis mine)
Anyway, the reason I quoted that part of your post is because Tailscale are using some Fear, Uncertainty, and Doubt tactics here by naming the privacy-preserving option “no-support”, and if you are a free user then you aren't getting support from them anyway, so there should be no downside to keeping your private network private :)