You’re disappointed to discover after 15 years that we expect people to try to be kind and to avoid fulmination? I’m not sure what kind of forum you want this to be, but the guidelines have been pretty consistent about those things for much or all of that time, as has the approach to moderation. Yes people breach the guidelines all the time. That doesn’t stop us reminding people of them and continuing to aim for better. You’re always welcome here if you respect the community and want to make the effort to respect the guidelines.