With the risk of self-promotion, I did write a blog about the issues and mitigations: https://herczegzsolt.hu/posts/soho-ipv6-in-2025-still-dicey/
But I have to admit, that I ended up buying my own IPv6 block from a local ISP and tunnel to them. They have great interconnections, so bandwidth is not an issue, and latency penalty is less then 2 ms an average.