(As a preface, I like the discussion. I've known about moral relativism, but I've never heard the positions you are defending here.)
> What about the area that isn't part of the circle, is that a property of the universe?
Yeah a circle as an abstract concept about the shape of a boundary. The outer area is as much defining the circle as the inner.
> What about when I drop crumbs on a table and they scatter, is there something special about their location?
Yes, if you compare them to the original location, you maybe get some information about the speed, or about the size of gravitational force or the material of the table or the material of the crumbs.
> what shape is that property? What color is it?
I don't get that part, why should it be?
> If I give you a microscope, can you point me to the property?
If you give me an electron microscope I can show you the "shape" of an atom. A single atom is also a property of the universe, but that is not the kind of property we are talking about. But it is strange that they all look alike, isn't it? And that the shape is somehow similar to what the behaviour of the universe is, if you breath into soap water. That's what a circle is. It is a property about the universe. It exists also in the universe, but it is not a single thing.
> You have an almost religious view
What makes that religious?
It seams like you conclude from the fact that there are a lot of (not sure if infinite) properties of the universe, that none is really important? I don't agree with that. Also some properties are more truthy than others, not because they are somehow better or anything, but because you can infer all the others from them, because others are rehashes and combinations of them.