Apparently, the red flags also include "has ghosted me" and "is married." Now, those are valid reasons to not date someone, but it's not safety. Safety is just the excuse, just like it is in so many other cases.

It's fucked up that you can't have an honest app to keep people safe, but the makers could have known the problems in advance, and probably did.

> One user’s story stands out

In which precisely nothing happened. We don't even know the nature of the alleged violence.

> It's expected that anon is misogynist

Did you just give a negative impression of someone you don't know?