I think you may be unfairly paraphrasing "we don't have enough funding to be able to work on both Element & Element X, or Synapse & Dendrite, or to have landed Threads/Spaces in Element X yet, or <insert complaint here>".
> The number of gigantic changes in direction this project has had in the past couple of years is enough to sink any project. Jitsi to Webrtc, complete change in auth system, Element to Element X.
It feels ironic that our attempts to improve the project are characterised as "gigantic changes in direction which are enough to sink any project".
* Jitsi is unencrypted by default, and doesn't synchronise identity, access control, or cryptographic identity with Matrix, and uses XMPP (Prosody) for signalling. Moving to MatrixRTC (i.e. WebRTC signalled over Matrix) gives proper end-to-end-encryption with verified identity and access control managed by Matrix. Surely this is a good thing?
* "Complete change in the auth system" is a massive improvement, in that one of the main drivers for doing it was to now be able to use any OIDC identity provider to add 2FA/MFA/Passkeys or whatever fancy auth you like (despite the OP's assertion otherwise).
* "Element to Element X. There's two clients. One that's fast, and one that's full featured". Well, that's true, but most people seem to feel Element X's improvements outweigh the fact it doesn't have threads/spaces yet (although they are both in dev currently).
> but my experience with these guys is that they're incredibly arrogant.
For what it's worth, I think i've made some spectacular mistakes in running Matrix, as well as bunch of good stuff). This came up in the TWIM offtopic room a few weeks ago at https://matrix.to/#/!xALORqBdeiSfgdrmUb:bpulse.org/$4bGbRTxN.... I've reproduced it (lightly updated) at https://gist.github.com/ara4n/8422ae8eae68a8993a5e831691b441... for ease of reference. I'll let you decide whether that sounds like arrogance or a BDFL who's too smart for his own good.
> P.S I suspect the organization is being led by Architecture Astronauts
On the Element side: does https://youtu.be/IwZ4rE_Pt64 feel like an org led by architecture astronauts?