_And that's the actual reason they work._ Undefit models don't just approximate, they interpolate, extrapolate, generalize a bit, and ideally smooth out the occasional total garbage mixed in with your data. In fact, diffusion models work so well because they can correct their own garbage! If extra fingers start to show up in step 5, then steps 6 and 7 still have a chance to reinterpret that as noise and correct back into distribution.
And then there's all the stuff you can do with diffusion models. In my research I hack into the model and use it to decompose images into the surface material properties and lighting! That doesn't make much sense as averaging of memorized patches.
Given all that, it is a very useful interpretation. But I wouldn't take it too literally.