I admit I'm one of those people. After decades where I should perhaps be a bit more cynical, from time to time I am still shocked or saddened when I see people do things that benefit themselves over others.
But I kinda like having this attitude and expectation. Makes me feel healthier.
Trust by default, also by default, never ignoring suspicious signals.
Trust is not being naïve, I find the confusion of both very worrying.
Actually Veritasium has a great video about this. It's proven as the most effective strategy in monte carlo simulation.
EDIT: This one: https://youtu.be/mScpHTIi-kM
EDIT: i thought about it for a min, i think in the olden days a crawler crawling every path through a website could yield an inferior search index. So robots.txt gave search engines a hint on what content was valuable to index. The content provider gained because their SEO was better (and cpu util. lower) and the search engine gained because their index was better. So there was an advantage to cooperation then but with crawlers feeding LLMs that isn't the case.
Have you tried Anubis? It was all over the internet a few months ago. I wonder if it actually works well. https://github.com/TecharoHQ/anubis
On their README.md they state:
> This program is designed to help protect the small internet from the endless storm of requests that flood in from AI companies. Anubis is as lightweight as possible to ensure that everyone can afford to protect the communities closest to them.
I love the idea!
While I absolutely love the intent of this idea, it quickly falls apart when you're dealing with systems where you only get the signals after you've already lost everything of value.
There are varying degrees of this through our lives, where the trust lies not in the fact that people will just follow the rules because they are rules, but because the rules set expectations, allowing everyone to (more or less) know what's going on and decide accordingly. This also makes it easier to single out the people who do not think the rules apply to them so we can avoid trusting them (and, probably, avoid them in general).
Naturally I am talking about cultures where that decision has not been taken away from their citizens.
The problem with that is that most people are not educated enough to judge what makes sense and what doesn’t, and the less educated you are, the more likely you are to believe you know what makes sense when you’re actually wrong. These are exactly the people that should be following the rules blindly, until they actually put in the effort to learn why those rules exist.
It actually frightens me how true this statement is.
To reinforce my initial position about how important the rules are for setting expectations, I usually use cyclists as an example. Many follow the proposed rules, understanding they are traffic, and right of way is not automagically granted based on the choice of vehicle, having more to do with direction and the flow of said traffic.
But there's always a bad apple, a cyclist who assumes themselves to be exempt from the rules and rides against the flow of traffic, then wonders why they got clipped because a right-turning driver wasn't expecting a vehicle to be coming from the direction traffic is not supposed to come from.
In the end, it's not really about what we drive or how we get around, but whether we are self-aware enough to understand that the rules apply to us, and collectively so. Setting the expectation of what each of our behaviors will be is precisely what creates the safety that comes with following them, and only the dummies seem to be the ones who think they are exempt.
But yes, I do the same. I just do not come here to pretend this is virtue.
It's not legal if somebody is following the slower car on the left and steers to the right to pass. However some drivers stick to the left at a speed slower than the limit and if they don't yield what happens is that eventually they get passed on the right.
The two cases have different names. The normal pass is "sorpasso", the other one (passing by not steering) is "superamento", which is odd but they had to find a word for it.
It should be a matter of judgement and not following rules just because.
That trust comes from the knowledge that it's likely that those drivers also don't want to crash, and would rather prefer to get where they're going.
I suppose the same goes if you take the tube, ride a bike, walk, etc? There's still rules in terms of behavior, flow of traffic (even foot traffic), etc, that helps set a number of expectations so everyone can decide and behave accordingly. Happy to hear different thoughts on this!