I am no expert in the field, but my reading of the original rowhammer issue (and later partial hardware mitigations) was that it was seen as better to design RAM that works fast and is dense and get that to market, than to engineer something provably untamperable with greater tolerances / die size / latency.

GPUs have always been squarely in the "get stuff to consumers ASAP" camp, rather than NASA-like engineering that can withstand cosmic rays and such.

I also presume an EM simulation would be able to spot it, but prior to rowhammer it is also possible no-one ever thought to check for it (or more likely that they'd check the simulation with random or typical data inputs, not a hitherto-unthought-of attack vector, but that doesn't explain more modern hardware).