Brambles can trap sheep, benefiting from the sheep as fertilizer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mrGobnZq83g
Falling coconuts can not only kill people, but probably kill far more small animals, again benefiting from them as fertilizer,
However, a visitor to the island will soon notice lots of dead birds on the ground. There are no predators or scavengers, so the birds lay there decomposing.
Thus, the trees use the birds not only for reproduction, but also for food. It's a carnivorous forest out there on the reef.
Of those 23, 5 were infants (<3y), 1 was killed by 4 coconuts, 1 was killed by a bunch of 57 coconuts(!), and 2 were accidentally killed by their harvesting monkeys.
I'll raise you this:
“None of you seem to understand. I’m not locked in here with you. You’re locked in here with me!”
However, if those conditions DON'T exist, then it's hard for plants to get very big.
There's also this: the larger a moving creature you're trying to capture, the more resources you need to invest in the trap. Bladderwort exists everywhere because it's easy to trap small/microscopic things. Giant bear-eating plants exist nowhere because consistently trapping a bear with just leaves, sap, and stems is really fucking hard.
At a certain point, the plants reach an equilibrium where the effort is worth the end result, but diminishing returns if they got larger.