Little Snitch can detect and block connections at the process level.
And as much as you can use little snitch for programs you install, these days it seems an endless whack-a-mole to block Apple's stuff as there's so many requests all the time. The more time goes by, the more it seems that the concept of "personal" computer is gone: there's nothing "personal" about it anymore, it's the computer plus an amorphous blob of online services one has no control over.
Little Snitch might be able to tell which process triggered that, if you press the info button in the alert. I'll have to check next time it happens.