I have asked every apple user around me and they just tell me about photo sync and iCloud.
These are the things at the top of my mind, I’m sure I can come up with much more.
Photo sync and iCloud are pretty easy to replace with Google Photos/G drive, so I’m not worried about that part.
It’s these small things that add up and make the whole experience better.
That alone is enough to lock most users in to the ecosystem. The idea of figuring out how to transfer all your photos to an Android device is too much work for most people.
None of the other stuff is worth worrying about.
I am personally migrating away from relying on iCloud and successfully so, but once you buy into an ecosystem, you end up entangled on so many levels that it's nearly impossible to move away with serious friction and habit-altering compromises. It becomes a serious cognitive load.
Notes apps are really also a solved problem
But I can't say there are as good alternatives to Airtag
The gym app I use also is pretty specific and having all my history data there, tracking current weight/reps for all the many exercises that it would be nearly impossible to migrate to another solution.