I see civilization as a race between our ability to create problems and our ability to solve problems.
You can make a case that a high reproductive rate is a social danger because it causes resource depletion and overall causes us to develop problems faster just because more people make more problems.
On the other hand, a low reproductive rate makes problems too. It's much easier to fund the kind of welfare state that the left wants when we have a high reproductive rate. The dreams of the right, in which many of us can save money in individual accounts and enjoy an easy retirement, are also dashed by a low reproductive rate.
Honestly I don't know what the optimal reproductive rate is. But I think there is something more to life than the quality and quantity of your orgasms, what pleasure you get, and the self-aggrandizement you experience making other people rich and famous.
Quite a few people have worked hard to create the civilization we have, and in particular, two parents invested a lot to raise me. I think it's fair to "pass this forward" and expect that we all produce (on average) a child each and that that's just a part of the mission we have on planet Earth.