Overly strict and overly liberal both lead to ossification. That's merely the observation that buggy behavior in either direction can potentially come to be relied on (or to be unpredictably forced on you, in the case of middleboxes filtering your traffic).

I'd only expect security issues to result from being overly liberal but 1. I wouldn't expect it to be very common and 2. I'm not at all convinced that's a compelling argument to reduce the robustness of an implementation.