This is an excellent point. How we choose to use and interact with AI is an individual and stochastic collective.
We can still choose not to give AI control.
We can still choose not to give AI control.
I think people keep forgetting that "Selection" can be excessively cruel.
If that ever changes then there is the question what to do with it and at a certain level of power an individual decision would have impact, if sufficiently amplified.
I’m being facetious but there ARE ways to decide/act as a society and as subgroups within society that we want to disallow and punish and select out qualities of AIs that we think are unethical.