"Strong opinions, weakly held" http://www.codinghorror.com/blog/2008/05/strong-opinions-wea... http://bobsutton.typepad.com/my_weblog/2006/07/strong_opinio...
"I aim to fight as if I am right, and listen as if I am wrong" http://blogs.hbr.org/sutton/2010/08/its_up_to_you_to_start_a...