I’m not sure I’ve met a Jetbrains user in projects I’ve worked on. It’s a paid product so just has a small userbase.
Their tools are wildly popular in many spaces. It isn't for everyone though. It's totally believable in your circle no one uses their tools, but it isn't niche.
Their use base is completely different. And we’re both in a bubble, I reckon. IntelliJ people also only know a few VSCode users!