no matter how advanced the civilization is, proxima centauri will always be 42 trillion kms away. Our civilization in current stage is not even close to 0.1% the speed of light but lets say your advanced civilization goes at 99% the speed of light, still doesnt change the fact they need 4.25 years approx to reach earth. Still doesnt change the fact that unless they have a 1 billion km wide telscope, they cannot reliably tell if earth has life or not. So basically you are asking them to take a shot at coming to the solar system on a 5 yr trip when they have no idea what is found here. Now extrapolate the numbers for the average 100 light year trip between 2 points on our galaxy and you ll quickly realize why we dont have aliens