You should never give legit answers to these security questions. I just paste in the output of pwgen -s 32 1. This may make your account harder to "recover" but it also makes it harder to steal.
like, put the first name in "Mother's maiden name", or the middle name, or swap their position
And you are right to treat it as a passsword
Bank: I'll just need you to confirm your mother's maiden...um...um
Me: Yes, it's a long string of random characters, want me to read it?
Bank: No, that's ok, thanks.
:/